Look, I get it.

“I can’t take good selfies” is a lie I let myself believe for far too long. I wasn’t as pretty, as skinny, as clean, as whatever the f*ck the other girls on social media were. I just wasn’t. And that is the lie I told myself every time I tried to take a selfie and it turned out wrong. I said it everytime I posted an image to my online dating profile (yes I met hubby using Match.com – different story for a different time), every time I posted a photo to Facebook I cringed at the thought that someone would tell me I was too ugly to post. Too fat to post.

Too insignificant. That’s really what it felt like. I wasn’t important enough to post it. Because I didn’t look like the other women on Instagram.

What a load of bullsh*t.

When I started taking better selfies, I felt better about myself and I stopped looking around and comparing myself to women on social me­dia. Instead, I began to give myself grace and see who I am and what I truly am worth. Seeing the ways that I am unique and beautiful. I was now a mompreneur who went through a “Selfie Evolu­tion” herself. I started LOVING how I looked in photo after photo after photo. Boy, is it incredible what will happen in your mind when you become happy with what you see.

So if you are ready to change the way your selfies look and how you feel I’ve got the answer right here.